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Analyze This!

This is a really great video from “The Psych Show” host Dr. Ali Mattu. All therapists dread this question but he does an exceptional job of explaining what is really going on. I agree with him completely. It also says a lot about co-dependent behavior. Wanting to know whether or not a person is okay with you, feeling threatened by a therapist because you don’t know how to act around them. It is also a way of saying “I have low self-esteem,” out loud or “I know I have a zit on my nose,” to attack before you are attacked. A defense mechanism designed to protect ones self, which is in essence saying “En garde.”

Usually when I am asked this question I will say, I am here to have a good time and I get paid to do these things. I might also say “What do you do for a living,” then I will ask them if when they go to people’s houses do they question people about these things that they do. For example, CPA – do you go to a house and question people about whether or not they expensed the boat they have out on the dock and then discuss the legality of this? Or a carpenter – do you go to a house and think about all the mistakes in the way it was built (actually they do – then they can drum up business). When therapists go to a party, we are dressed in our normal non-professional outfit, might have a drink in our hand or took a bite on a cheese puff and are wondering about the books on the shelf or the cute guy in the corner, just like you are.

The Psych Show and Exposure Therapy

 

I met Dr. Ali Mattu recently at a workshop called “Social Media and Mental Health,” which he and local professional Dr. Ackerman were facilitating. Today I finally had the time to sit down and review some of his videos on YouTube. He has a “channel” called “The Psych Show,” where he covers a variety of mental health topics. The videos are quite entertaining and educational as well. This is an example of one of his videos. Go to YouTube and see what other interesting topics he covers. He makes psychology a fun topic rather than something to avoid.